A free newsletter for men who want to lead well and live better—without all the noise.

Short emails focused on what actually matters:
Family. Purpose. Growth. Health. Simplicity.

No fluff. No hustle.
Just a clear, grounded perspective for real life.

Campfire Gentleman cuts through the noise
so you can live aligned,
show up for your people,
and build a life you’re proud of.

2 short emails per week. No spam. Just real tools for building a better life.

The Impact So Far

Real words from real readers—about how Campfire Gentleman is helping them refocus on what matters most: family, purpose, growth, health, and simplicity.

Clay is a great read for the men out there looking to level up in their quality of family and brotherhood relationships.

Chris Meston

Host of A Path to Purpose Podcast

I appreciate Clay's approach and outlook on life.

Laurence Chinery

Host of Dad Dialogue Podcast

I appreciate Clay, and I look forward to his emails each week.

Kevin

Campfire Gentleman Reader

Clay is a great and special guest—soft spoken, with a noble goal. We need more voices like his.

Dr. Suleiman Ijani

Host of Dadpuzzles

Clay's message hits the spot for me.

Rob

Campfire Gentleman Reader

Frequently Asked Questions

What exactly will I get if I subscribe?

Two short, no-fluff emails every week—Monday and Thursday.
One’s a quick story or insight to help you recalibrate.
The other’s a challenge, question, or shift to try that day.
Simple. Practical. Real. Nothing overwhelming, and nothing wasted.

Who is this for?

Men who care.

Guys who want to lead well, live better, and stop drifting.

Especially husbands and fathers who are done with the noise and ready to start showing up—on purpose.

How long are the emails?

Quick. Most take 3-5 minutes to read.
Long enough to make you think—short enough to read with your morning coffee.

Is it faith-based?

Campfire Gentleman isn’t intended to be specifically a faith-based project.
That said, I’m a man of faith—and that perspective naturally shows up.

The ideas here are rooted in values like integrity, presence, responsibility, and living aligned with what you believe. It’s not preachy, but it doesn’t dodge depth either.

If you believe life is about more than achievement, metrics, and checking boxes—especially when it comes to family—you’ll feel at home here.

Some readers share my faith. Others don’t. What matters most is a desire to live intentionally and lead well where it counts.

Can I unsubscribe anytime?

Of course. No guilt, no drama.

One click and you’re out.
But odds are, if you’re reading this—you’ll want to stick around.

If this is free, how are you making money? What are you really selling me?

Fair question. I get it—most “free” things online come with a catch. This isn’t one of them.

Here’s the deal:
Campfire Gentleman is free because I believe this stuff should be accessible.
Eventually, I’ll earn through things like coaching, books, digital tools, maybe a planner, and partnering with brands I actually trust.

But there’s no hidden funnel.
No upsell buried in the emails.
No pressure to buy anything—ever.

If something I create helps you and you want more, great.
If not, enjoy the newsletter. That’s the win.