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Growth

The Echo Chamber of Masculinity

Jan 8, 2026

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5 min read

The Echo Chamber of Masculinity

I was right; most people's opinions about others are really about themselves.

Growth

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In Defense of a Boring Life

Jan 5, 2026

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7 min read

In Defense of a Boring Life

The pressure to impress is exhausting—here’s the alternative.

Simplicity

Keep Going: Why Most Men Actually Win the New Year

Jan 1, 2026

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5 min read

Keep Going: Why Most Men Actually Win the New Year

Turns out the tortoise has been quietly winning the New Year this whole time.

Growth

Everyone Wants to Go to Heaven, but Nobody Wants to Die

Dec 29, 2025

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6 min read

Everyone Wants to Go to Heaven, but Nobody Wants to Die

Why everything you want lives on the other side of discomfort.

Family

My Aunt, Christmas, and Phil Collins

Dec 25, 2025

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6 min read

My Aunt, Christmas, and Phil Collins

No lesson. No takeaway. Just a few Christmas memories worth holding onto.

Family

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The Example You’re Setting (Whether You Mean To or Not)

Dec 22, 2025

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6 min read

The Example You’re Setting (Whether You Mean To or Not)

What your kids learn when they see you keep going.

Simplicity

Spontaneity isn’t just overrated—it’s dumb

Dec 18, 2025

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7 min read

Spontaneity isn’t just overrated—it’s dumb

A planned date night beats a spontaneous one... because it actually happens.

Family

The 80/20 Rule for Marriage: What Really Moves the Needle

Dec 15, 2025

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6 min read

The 80/20 Rule for Marriage: What Really Moves the Needle

A small reminder to show up for the moments that won’t wait.

Family

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It Never Feels Like Enough. But That Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing.

Dec 11, 2025

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6 min read

It Never Feels Like Enough. But That Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing.

The voice telling you to do more won’t quiet down when you hustle harder—but it will when you slow down.

Family

Time with Your Kids Isn’t Just Passing—It’s Evaporating

Dec 8, 2025

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8 min read

Time with Your Kids Isn’t Just Passing—It’s Evaporating

A small reminder to show up for the moments that won’t wait.

Simplicity

Multitasking Is a Lie. You Know It—But You Still Do It.

Dec 4, 2025

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7 min read

Multitasking Is a Lie. You Know It—But You Still Do It.

Trying to do everything at once is the fastest way to stay scattered. Here’s why doing one thing—on purpose—matters more.

Health

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When Curation Starts to Feel Like Reality

Dec 1, 2025

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7 min read

When Curation Starts to Feel Like Reality

Don’t let someone’s edited moments steal joy from your real ones.

Family

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The Good Old Days Are Right Now

Nov 27, 2025

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8 min read

The Good Old Days Are Right Now

A Thanksgiving reminder about the “good old days” and a follow-up to Monday’s thoughts on how you’re allowed to feel

Health

Why Men Stop Sharing What They Feel

Nov 24, 2025

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8 min read

Why Men Stop Sharing What They Feel

It’s not about pride. And it’s not about toughness. It’s something deeper.

Purpose

If You Don’t Steer, You Drift

Nov 20, 2025

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7 min read

If You Don’t Steer, You Drift

A reminder that most things don’t fall apart suddenly—they slowly slip away when we stop paying attention.

Health

The Other Half of “Check In on Your Friends”

Nov 17, 2025

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7 min read

The Other Half of “Check In on Your Friends”

The advice is everywhere: check on your friends. But there’s a missing half no one talks about.

Growth

You’re the One Behind the Wheel

Nov 13, 2025

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8 min read

You’re the One Behind the Wheel

A small story about gut checks, responsibility, and one very confused construction crew.

Family

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Late, Tired, and Thankful Anyway

Nov 10, 2025

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5 min read

Late, Tired, and Thankful Anyway

Didn’t sleep much, didn’t write what I planned, but somehow ended up with exactly what I needed.

Growth

If you don’t embrace change, you will get bitter about it.

Nov 6, 2025

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7 min read

If you don’t embrace change, you will get bitter about it.

Midlife’s coming whether you’re ready or not. The trick is learning to grow with it.

Family

The Fatherhood Playbook: Teaching Values Without Preaching

Nov 3, 2025

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6 min read

The Fatherhood Playbook: Teaching Values Without Preaching

The lessons our kids remember aren’t the ones we sit down to teach—they’re the ones we quietly live every day.

Growth

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“Let’s Get Together Soon” Is the Adult Version of “We Should Start a Band”

Oct 30, 2025

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7 min read

“Let’s Get Together Soon” Is the Adult Version of “We Should Start a Band”

Good intentions don’t build connection. Follow-through does.

Family

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The Quiet Fade of Friendship

Oct 27, 2025

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5 min read

The Quiet Fade of Friendship

You don’t drift into strong friendships. You build them on purpose.

Family

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But I'm Not Done Swinging

Oct 23, 2025

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5 min read

But I'm Not Done Swinging

Sometimes the best reminder that life doesn’t have to be so serious comes from a playground.

Purpose

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How to Keep Life Interesting as a Grown Man

Oct 20, 2025

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6 min read

How to Keep Life Interesting as a Grown Man

Bills, kids, work... somewhere in there, fun fell off the list. Let’s fix that.

Family

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If you want your marriage to grow, you have to grow.

Oct 16, 2025

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5 min read

If you want your marriage to grow, you have to grow.

You can’t stay the same man and expect your marriage to stay alive.

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