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The Distance Between a Bust and a Steal

Sep 10, 2026

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3 min read

The Distance Between a Bust and a Steal

What if the thing you’re disappointed in isn’t the problem—the expectation is?

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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A Thumbs-Up Isn’t Helping

Sep 7, 2026

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3 min read

A Thumbs-Up Isn’t Helping

Sometimes “Let me know if you need anything” is just a thumbs-up with more words.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Purpose

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The Song Didn't Change. You Did.

Sep 3, 2026

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2 min read

The Song Didn't Change. You Did.

Same song. Different listener. What the music we return to can reveal about the people we've become.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Family

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The Kid You Imagined Isn’t the Kid You Got

Aug 31, 2026

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6 min read

The Kid You Imagined Isn’t the Kid You Got

And becoming the dad they need might require changing more than you expected.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Family

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The Father He Wanted to Be

Aug 3, 2026

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3 min read

The Father He Wanted to Be

Matt Fogelson on fathers, identity, and the gap between knowing and becoming

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Purpose

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The Weight of Compounding Expectations

Jul 27, 2026

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3 min read

The Weight of Compounding Expectations

You may be comparing your life to someone who doesn't even exist.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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Optimizing a Good Time

Jul 23, 2026

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2 min read

Optimizing a Good Time

The older I get, the less convinced I am that the best memories can be scheduled.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

For Years, I Thought Willy Wonka Was a Horror Movie

Jul 20, 2026

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3 min read

For Years, I Thought Willy Wonka Was a Horror Movie

I spent more than a decade convinced I knew how the movie ended. I hadn't even seen the ending.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

A Ton of Feathers Still Weighs a Ton

Jul 13, 2026

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3 min read

A Ton of Feathers Still Weighs a Ton

The smallest choices have more weight than they seem.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Purpose

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Never Confuse the Latest Chapter with the Final One

Jul 6, 2026

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3 min read

Never Confuse the Latest Chapter with the Final One

We have a habit of deciding who people are long before they're done becoming that person

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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Stop Planning for Every Contingency

Jul 2, 2026

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2 min read

Stop Planning for Every Contingency

The goal isn't to predict every problem. It's to become capable enough to face them.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

The Wake-Up Call Isn’t the Hard Part

Jun 29, 2026

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7 min read

The Wake-Up Call Isn’t the Hard Part

Bryan Falchuk on why real change is sustained by self-worth, honesty, and today’s next choice.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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The Uncomfortable Skill of Not Knowing

Jun 22, 2026

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4 min read

The Uncomfortable Skill of Not Knowing

We've become experts at finding answers. The problem is that life's biggest questions still don't come with them.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Family

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There Won't Always Be Another Road Trip

Jun 18, 2026

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2 min read

There Won't Always Be Another Road Trip

Why assuming there will always be another time might be costing us the one we have now.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

Time Is an Illusion... Kinda

Jun 11, 2026

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2 min read

Time Is an Illusion... Kinda

Your kids getting taller. Your parents getting older. The photograph didn't change. You did.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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The Villains Always Think Everything Means Something

Jun 4, 2026

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2 min read

The Villains Always Think Everything Means Something

We build entire stories around tiny fragments of incomplete information.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Family

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The Most Important Part of Your Day Might Start at 6 PM

May 21, 2026

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2 min read

The Most Important Part of Your Day Might Start at 6 PM

You can spend all day providing for your family and still accidentally give them whatever energy you have left over.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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The High-Maintenance Maintenance Director

May 18, 2026

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4 min read

The High-Maintenance Maintenance Director

How a fun article turned into a lesson about humility, praise, and why so many good men struggle to simply say “thank you.”

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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At Some Point, You Already Know Enough

May 14, 2026

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1 min read

At Some Point, You Already Know Enough

When smart people start saying the same thing I’ve been thinking, maybe I’m not crazy.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

"Why Can’t I See Your Undershirt?"

May 11, 2026

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3 min read

"Why Can’t I See Your Undershirt?"

Most bad advice doesn’t come from bad intentions. It comes from unexamined experience.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

The Rock Bottom Olympics

May 4, 2026

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3 min read

The Rock Bottom Olympics

When did collapse become a requirement for growth?

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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Most People Never Get Closure

Apr 27, 2026

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2 min read

Most People Never Get Closure

Most endings don’t resolve. They just... stop.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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Courage Is Rarer Than Genius

Apr 23, 2026

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2 min read

Courage Is Rarer Than Genius

Plenty of people have good ideas. Few actually act on them.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Growth

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Guilt Isn’t a Compass

Apr 20, 2026

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2 min read

Guilt Isn’t a Compass

Saying yes to everything doesn’t make you dependable. It makes you divided.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett

Family

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“I’ve Had 18 Bosses and One Family”

Apr 13, 2026

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6 min read

“I’ve Had 18 Bosses and One Family”

Cory Carlson on why winning at home sets you up for success everywhere else.

Clay Garrett
Clay Garrett
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